Jess and Dani in Manhattan

Last Updated on March 7, 2021

The fresh, crisp air buzzed with the kind of excitement only those first few summer days can bring. This is what drew Dani and I out onto the Brooklyn Promenade that afternoon. Working away in our Brooklyn Heights condo, where we had been housesitting for nearly two months, the sounds of summer teased us through the open window.

Once we decided to take a break, it was easy to speed down the stairs and run two blocks to sit on a bench and take in the cyclists and skateboarders, couples kissing and kids balancing ice scoops on sugar cones while running in circles around tired tourists who just finished their obligatory trek over the Brooklyn Bridge in order to snap pictures of the Manhattan skyline just across the water.

manhattan skylineHad we just been in town on a quick holiday, we most likely would have joined those tourists, Dani would have worked on getting good skyline shots and then maybe we would have had dinner somewhere before heading back to a Manhattan hotel near Central Park or Times Square. This time around, though, we were not tourists.

We were New Yorkers, albeit temporarily, and housesitting for two months, we were able to develop a routine, habits, in fact a full life in the city. For an hour we let the strong sun singe our skin as we sat lazily on a bench with that relaxed feeling you can only have when you’re just a few blocks from ‘home’ and don’t need a thing.

Union Square Farmers Market New York
Enjoying the fresh produce from the Union Square Farmers Market

Instead of descending upon wicker tables in a hotel lobby and eating half-frozen cantaloupe slices and toast for breakfast, I woke up everyday at 7am to feed our two adorable pet cats, meowing so loudly you’d think we hadn’t fed them and spoiled them with cuddles and treats the day before. Then I fed the fish and re-joined Dani (who slept through feeding time) in our king size bed, and fell back asleep to the sound of rough cat tongues licking away their piles of organic cat food.

Eventually we woke up, made scrambled eggs or yogurt and granola and cups of ridiculously strong coffee and got to work. The mornings were filled with writing, phone calls, interviews, podcast or video editing – the multi-faceted mountains of work bloggers chip away at just to keep plates spinning every day.

Brooklyn Heights
Brownstones in our neighborhood in Brooklyn

As morning dissipated into the long afternoon stretch, we would inevitably become anxious to get out and explore before returning to feed the cats in the early evening and heading back out for dinner or meet-ups with friends. That’s the thing about actually living in New York – there is never a shortage of interesting people to meet, including friends from the online world and friends of friends who turned into great friends of our own.

When we weren’t out exploring the five boroughs, or meeting people for coffee, ice cream, dinner or drinks, we were enjoying the comforts of ‘home’, watching Netflix movies on the futon and ordering in any type of international cuisine using the Seamless food delivery app.

Spring in New York City
We loved the glorious spring days in New York

In the two months we housesat in Brooklyn, we hung out in hipsterville known as Williamsburg, walked home to upscale Brooklyn Heights from up-and-coming Red Hook, crossed the Brooklyn Bridge several times with visiting friends, walked the length of Broadway in Manhattan, went to Queens, the Brooklyn Navy Yard, Governor’s Island and Roosevelt Island, walked through Prospect Park and Central Park, Cobble Hill and the East Village, Chelsea and downtown Brooklyn, we hit flea markets, farmers markets, ate from food trucks and at trendy brunch locations.

But it was the soft, easy details of actually living in New York that filled us with joy. Dani went running over the Brooklyn Bridge once or twice a week, we loved jumping out to sit on the Brooklyn Promenade or watching in awe as teenagers sang doo-wap on the C Train back home at night, eating in the diner around the block or having coffee in a cafe around the corner from our house.

Meeting friends in NYC
New and old friends in NYC

These moments probably shine even brighter for us because we were able to do this all without paying a single cent in rent. Cuddling and feeding their cats and giving the condo a few good scrubs was all that was required for us to live out an absolute dream. We estimate that we saved between $5000-$7000 in rental costs over those weeks, which meant we could drop extra cash on concert tickets or see a Broadway show. In fact one of our absolute highlights was seeing the best piece of (interactive) theater we have ever seen, Sleep No More at the McKittrick hotel, which we may not have done if we were already spending $150 a night on a hotel room or vacation rental in New York.

More than anything, spending the spring and start of summer in New York gave us a massive gift, one we have been looking for since we started traveling all those years ago. We discovered that New York is a place we could actually call home. Even if we never settle down there (or anywhere, for all we know), our love of New York is now so ingrained in our hearts that we know we want to create a lifestyle that involves a month or more here, every year, at least.

new york manhattan skyline at sunset

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  1. This is exactly how I feel about New York. It’s ingrained in my heart as you say. We’re staying on the C train line too πŸ™‚ So glad you got the opportunity to fall in love with this city!

  2. So lovely! I’m curious to know, is there anywhere else that makes your list of places that deserve a visit every year? How about Berlin, after your time there so far?

    1. It’s too early to tell if Berlin makes our list – we’ve only been here for three full days now πŸ™‚ But, so far we really like it and it might end up on this list! πŸ˜‰

  3. Almost every traveller I come across says the same thing about New York – ‘you have to live there at least once in your life’
    Sounds like I might have to get myself there too

  4. What a great experience. Would love to stay in NY for a bit longer one day too! NY looks so pretty in the spring with all the trees in bloom. I went in the summer when I went a few years ago, so it didn’t look as pretty. I still loved it though. Especially Brooklyn and Greenwich Village.

    1. Thanks, Tammy! We loved this housesit so much – we had been dreaming of living in New York for a few months for YEARS. We were incredibly lucky that we got to live this dream! You should start housesitting, too πŸ˜‰

    1. Jessica- yes, let’s definitely meet up again when we’re back in town next month!! Hope you’re enjoying Hawaii πŸ™‚

  5. Oh I love NYC . I spent my first solo travel to the city. It was over the nye period . Was absolutely stunning . I can see why you would want to make NYC home for part of the year. I would.

  6. Love this city! I had gone to there 2 years ago. You made ​​me recall memories.
    Thanks for sharing

    1. It sure is! In some neighborhoods, at least. There were quite a few times when we found ourselves in a neighborhood where we thought to ourselves ‘this doesn’t feel like New York at all!’ – but without our housesit, we would’ve never had the chance to find these gems πŸ™‚

    1. Haha, did you really? That’s awesome πŸ™‚ It was an amazing gig! The only thing missing was having our favorite travel blogging couple in town!! Maybe next time? πŸ™‚

  7. This post makes me homesick and nostalgic for home! So glad we were able to finally meet in person during this time. And wow, wasn’t Sleep No More fantastic?! Loved it!

    1. Yes, it was!! I had no idea you’d seen SNM, too!! It was great that we finally got to meet up – maybe we can make it happen again in Peru?! πŸ™‚

  8. Were you featured on a radio show recently and you said you do not charge for house keeping, you could never do that because of the savings, even if they handed you an envelope or something like that. Are you the those girls?

    1. Yes, that might have been us πŸ™‚ Did you hear us on the Rudy Maxa show last weekend? We do not charge for housesitting, but it’s quite different from housekeeping πŸ˜€ We feel that getting a free place to stay is ‘payment’ enough in return for looking after the house and/or pets.

  9. I forgot to add. The photos are stunning! Maybe you can make wall paper out of them? They image too big on my computer. Cannot house sit, but I can imagine I’m there vicariously?

  10. Hi, I’m getting a work visa with my college to go to New York for this summer and your blog post just made me super excited for it haha! It sounds so wonderful!! I’m just wondering how did you go about becoming a house sitter? πŸ™‚

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